So you know how I told the ex-bf to cool it until 8 mos?
Ok well it’s been about 3 weeks.
He texted me yesterday morning…
Hey pray for my family especially my mom. She unexpectedly lost her sister. I don’t know all the details but the funeral is Friday. They are driving to Kansas.
I had a choice to make. Text him back or what?
I already knew this all went down because I called his mom on Saturday on a whim. She told me all this and more-she was going to email me when she got back from Missouri and let me know how it all went.
So, I texted him because I love his family and I wanted him to portray that to them…
I talked with your mom sat-she brought me up to date on everything she knows and will email me when she gets back from MO. I’m praying for ur family.
I’m not expecting a reply because we are not supposed to be communicating. Do i get a reply? Oh yeah. A hell of a reply at that!
Prepare for a shocker:
Hey. I mean I know you and my mom still talk and what not but I am very serious about my new girlfriend and am looking to get engaged soon after I graduate. I just didn’t want it to seem shady or like there was a chance of us getting back together later on down the road. Idk if that’s what u were tryin to do with my mom like i know yall are friends but I mean, I’ve made my decision and I don’t want any confusion. So like I just I really need you to respect it with my family and I’ll talk to my mom about it too cuz like when my girlfriend hears about you talkin to my mom it looks like I’m doin something wrong u know. So its gotta stop
Alot of things are running through my head as I read this text. Who in the world wrote this? Because someone sounds like a valley girl with all them LIKES in this sentence.
1. YOU TEXTED ME TO PRAY FOR YOUR FAMILY especially your mom.
That’s rude of you to spring this one like this.
2. I MADE the decision to CEASE ALL COMMUNICATION.
In which you responded, well I’ll text you every now and then to see how you’re doing.. Which I clarified to no communication AT ALL not just phone but EVERYTHING text, email, etc.
With that knowledge you said, I’ll be hearing about you through my mom since that’s the only connection we’ll be having…
3. Heck with your girlfriend. I grew up in L.A.
I know people out there who grew up in L.A. and will fight for me.
4. Who you think you are to be telling your mom what to do?
Especially at time like this. She’s on my side in this situation. I would know because I actually talk to her!
5. Who you think you are to tell me what to do?! We’re not together. Heck we’re not even friends! You think I’m going to listen to you?!
Ok, so i will listen and respect your mom but unless she tells me otherwise I will be talking to her. THANK YOU.
6. Uhm so your girlfriend knows your mom and I talk?
Did she know you wanted to keep in contact with me? Did you tell her that you still had strong feelings for me? Did you tell her that we stayed on the phone all night long talking to one another? Did you tell her you think you still think of me as yours?
7. If I was an absolute girl I would have torn your life upside down already. I saved those text messages you sent me…where you say you will ALWAYS care for me. Where you said you can’t give me dating advice because you can’t go there.
8. If your gf is so insecure about your EX-gf and your mom talking- you WILL have problems. She won’t stop there. She’ll make you stop talking to everyone that is a threat or everyone she perceives as a threat.
Boy, I’ve never known you to be stupid but right now you are a complete fool. Any of that legalese stuff you learned in school and completely love is out the window. Maybe you should reconsider your profession.
Oh and if you were wondering. Your mom and I don’t talk about you. We talk about everything but you. Your mom knows I’m better off without you and I deserve someone amazing because right now you are not the man I dated but a boy I do not know.
Please Tell Me 